Every conflict you experience has a reason behind it.There's a lesson inside each conflict that will unlock your ability to go Beyond and hit the next level.There are certain patterns that will help you do that, and other anti-patterns that will prevent you from doing that. I will show you these patterns.The patterns are scale-free. They work in your inner dialogues, your most intimate relationships, with your work colleagues, and on divisive political and religious conversations.When you practice these patterns at any scale, your skill grows at every scale. You become part of the solution that we all need.Doing this work is heroic. That's what I call it the Ten Thousand Heroes Club.

I do mediation, conflict education, Ombuds, and community-building retreats in the spirit of Mahatma Gandhi and Martin Luther King Jr. (more detail)I am a certified mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.I have a background in mathematics, software, cooking, farming, chaplaincy, natural building, decision-making, pilgrimage, and mediation. (more detail)I use these skills in the Spirit of Togetherness at every scale.To get in touch, just sign up for the newsletter and hit 'reply'.To learn more about my bizarre unique approach, check out my blog.